I dislike busy bodies. I am a certified introvert but notice how unmindful I have been. Our daughter was running for honors in high school. Once I heard her complaining about how difficult her math homework was. Quietly I went to ask help from our engineer neighbor.

Our daughter was horrified: Mom, I was just venting. I didn’t ask for help.
On another occasion, I excitedly outlined an educational exercise for a young relative for her toddler. I enthusiastically explained each step. No reaction. Since then she has not communicated.

Recently, a former student sounded depressed when she replied to an email. I was overly concerned. I texted two of her closest friends in the province. I would have alerted her nearest of kin in Manila had I known a number. The next day, I learned she was her usual bubbly self. She even went to the community market to buy organic vegetables.

The moral is. Stay as an introvert and wait to be asked for help!