Problems according to Joe Vitale are memories replaying. Memories are programs that aren’t just yours. They are shared. The way to release the memory is to send love to the divinity. Divinity hears and responds but in the way best for all, at the time right for all.

This is disturbing to me. I am such an introvert struggling with social concerns and responsibilities. I don’t seem to have the energy not the taste for minding the business of others except of course the business of our daughter and my husband.

As a compromise, I have been subscribing to the Hawaiian healing strategy of Ho’oponopono which is comfortably distant for me. I feel safe with the constant repetitions of: “I’m sorry. I love you. I thank you.” Yet I feel I’m splitting myself.

For years I have refused to say the rosary because I didn’t relish repeating the same prayers. Yet here I am repeating the Ho’oponopono requests.
According to Vitale, a program is like a belief. When we notice it in others that’s a sure sign the program is also in our system. So, you have to neutralize the program with Ho’oponopono requests to go back to the zero state where divinity inspires.

Using the law of pragmatism, I rely on Joe Vitale’s scheme because it has worked for me countless times from locating missing things, to helping me with my anxieties over my husband and our daughter