Apparently this is an upsetting statement from “Zero Limits” : “You have to give up the idea that people do things for you. They do things for themselves.”

“Joys of Much Too Much” has something similar: “Over the years I’ve learned as both an employer and a job seeker that you can presume nothing nor can you assume that what you think is obvious appears that way to the rest of the world. It rarely does.”

Dooley in “Infinite Possibilities” says: “We live lives that are so personal and individual.”

“Our lives are far more personal, precious and unique, than we’ve been taught and this is because they e fr more a product of how and what we think than they are of evolution or destiny.”

“It’s far more accurate to think that we all sit alone in our own movie theaters. Apart from life’s unchanging principles, we all live by different rules and truths based upon different beliefs.”

But Esther Hicks, Martha Beck and Neale Walsch would counter by saying that in truth we are all one.

So in my life, I use the Ho’oponopono strategy. I no longer try to fix everything. I trust the Divine in me to accomplish what i can’t.