“We each have acquired a perspective about the nature of life.”   (Jim Gilkeson)
“The process of learning anything new can force us to revise the stories we tell ourselves, and the belief structures that
live within us, for these flavor our perceptions of the world and determine what we UNDERSTAND, ACCEPT and REJECT. ”  (Jim Gilkeson)

The above paragraphs explain why I claim: I am my best doctor; Healing is ultimately self-healing; I choose to allow my husband and our daughter to follow their individual paths even if they turn out to be unlike what I envisioned when I was still  consciously an ISTJ.

“This is what people often mean when they say we each create  our own experience of the world.”   (Jim Gilkeson)

Through months of darkness of our daughter in London, I opted to create my own reality where she would triumph over her challenges. Supporting her while seriously working on my own healing was overwhelming. This was compounded by the very hectic schedule of my husband with trips and days away for seminars. I had a hard time not being resentful; I had proclaimed my intention to allow both my husband and our daughter to follow their individual pathways.

I went over my experiences in the 90s when I had severe clinical depression. I vowed not to wallow in negativity. I believed with my body and soul and spirit that I had been given all the gifts I would need before I came to this life.

“That concept becomes increasingly apparent as we work at the energetic level, where we are challenged to interpret expressions without the usual reference points.”    (Jim Gilkeson)

“The result of our inner work is far more valuable to the soul than outside accomplishments for in reality it is only the former that can pass with us into death.”   (DR. Page)

I am still alive after the challenges and enjoying the fruits of my inner work. Definitely without the usual reference points!