Dr. Emiliano T. Hudtohan, AB, BSE, MA, EdD
Pearl’s hip surgery on March 22 put her on forced vacation from her website postings at readerscenter.com. And she very much obliged me to blog, just like Julie whom she requested earlier. Mind you, she also assigned me a topic: caregiver as healer. I was her caregiver on three crucial life-threatening events.
Mind-Emotion Turbulence
The first was when she partially lost her voice and was given leave of absence from Assumption College for severe mental and emotional fatigue. I used to bring her out of town, regular trips to Our Lady of Mount Carmel, Lipa City, where Mother Prioress Sr. Mary Grace Rillo assured her of spiritual, psychological and financial support. That assurance dispelled her uncountable dark fear of the future.
Sr. Grace gave Pearl a sapling from the convent vine where Our Lady appeared to Teresing Castillo in the 50s. When the third sapling grew in our apartment garden, it signaled the healing of her mind, body and spirit fully manifested by the return of her voice. In Bong Nadera’s Centennial winning literary piece, Mujer Indigena, Sr. Grace is one of the 12 indigenous healers cited as Madre (Sapi X, p. 45).
As caregiver, I prayed over her once and after I raised my hand over her head, she released food waste and was relieved from stomach cramp. After that, I knelt beside her as she was lying on the sofa; I sang Yaweh I know you are near, I know you are here. Then, I noticed small electric fan resting on the floor, which was pointed towards the face of Pearl, was turning towards me. The uneven flooring could have triggered the movement, but my senses told it announced His presence. Being a Catholic lay minister of the Holy Eucharist at that time; for me, it was a theological event. And my pre-Spanish ethnic research reminded me that I am an asug, a male version of a babaylan who was a female community healer.
Blood Sugar and Blood Pressure
The second caregiving incident took place some three years ago when Pearl’s blood sugar triggered a high blood pressure. With two male Grand Tower security guards, we were able to put her on a wheelchair and brought her to San Juan de Dios Hospital. There she was diagnosed with minor blood clot at her cerebellum. For three days, with no reliever, I posted myself at the waiting area of the ICU. When she was settled down, her cardiologist asked how she was; she answered she was feeling fine, not because of the presence of the medical team of doctors but it was because I was in the room. Here I realized that presence of a loved one creates energy and has a healing power to bring about consciousness, clarity, and normalcy. A new understanding of presence as energy confirmed my research in the nature of quarks, the smallest particle of matter [overriding the half-century old idea of atom]. In discussing quarks I often discuss among my graduate students at De La Salle University, Manila; De La Salle Araneta, Malabon; San Beda College, Mendiola; and De La Salle College of St. Benilde. I tell them that the husband of Belo was Atom Henares and they have a son named Quark. This vividly demonstrates who is much smaller. As our body is reduced to organs, cells, molecules, atoms, and quarks, we appreciate the nature of quarks as light and matter. And in Einstein’s equation: energy is simply a configuration of mass [matter] and light. Pearl’s health challenge gave me a second chance to be a caregiver. This time I explored the new science of quantum physics and the nature of quantum energy resident in every quark present in her body.
Physical Off-Balance
The third caregiving incident happened after her hip surgery. Dr. Bernardo of San Juan de Dios Hospital briefed us, saying her fractured hip bone had to be replaced by titanium. Secretly, I wondered how the procedure would be: size of bone replacement and integration of metal and cell muscles. Dr. Trix Punzaran, Pearl’s co-faculty and surgeon of SJDD, eased my mind when he told us the new technology in surgical medical science. Here, I regained my faith and appreciation of Rene Descartes whose scientific principles are today mastered to perfection by experienced medical doctors. Right there, my metaphysical science pendulum reverted to physical science pole, fully convinced that medical intervention will directly addressed and responded to Pearl’s body in distress as she experienced extreme pain. Later that week, Dr. Mendiola assured Pearl that surgical operation and medical intervention are immediate and timely, in contrast to herbal and alternative medicine that is non-intrusive. Somehow, this loosened up Pearl’s limited belief in medical science taken from a book: What Doctors Did Not Learn in School.
Her hip operation entailed tremendous physical effort on my part to help her manage her movement: turning from side-to-side, sitting up, getting out of bed, using the walker, and sitting on the commode. The body has mass and Pearl has massive weight. It took three SJDD attendants to help her get inside the taxi as we left the hospital. At Grand Tower, another four male burly guys, headed by SGuard Mark Custodio lifted her literally and be seated on a chair [GTC wheelchair was used for another emergency that time] until she settled down in our bedroom.
Physicality is as real as spirituality. The lesson I learned is to be virtuous; instead of taking science on one side and pitting it against metaphysical science, now recognize the oneness of the body-spirit reality. The very nature of human existence is body-spirit. The science that addresses the body physicality; metaphysical science focuses on the spirit and the nature of consciousness. Metaphysics, likewise, cannot deny the physicality of human nature. And so, Einstein’s formula of Energy equals the intricate interaction of Light [spirit; non-material entity beyond the senses but nonetheless real] and Matter [body; concrete material reality readily seen] I now fully recognize.
The caregiver to be a spiritual healer must have a balanced view on Cartesian science and the New Science of Quantum Physics to fully understand the total nature of the person being cared for.