“A confirmation announces that the outcome has already been produced.”

“The genius of the system [God’s action in the universe] is that it is pure energy reacting to energy by reproducing in physical form what is put into it by all sentient beings in the form of their thoughts, words, and actions – which in turn, are based on what humans call ‘feelings’…
which in turn are simply other forms of energy.”

“The trick is to stay in the space of gratitude for every one outcome and experience, every circumstance and situation.”

Neale Walsch continues to explain what happens in the universe, in God’s world. “Gratitude eliminates negativity, disappointment, resentment, and anger. And when those emotions disappear, room is made for the energy of love for God, for life, and for yourself to re-appear – now more fully than ever.”

The above I believe is similar to Joe Vitale’s taking full responsibility of anything and everything, not blaming anybody nor anything. Thereby, it is true that we create our own reality by choice.